This weekend, a ‘Bank Holiday’ weekend in the UK, we decided
to pop into Oxfam Books for a mooch and I stumbled upon a book which this Blog
post is dedicated to. “Living well is the best revenge” is the memoirs of
Gerald and Sara Murphy, champions of the ‘Lost generation’ writers.
Upon a recommendation we recently saw Woody Allen’s ‘Midnight
in Paris’ and it ignited a forgotten teenage interest in: Hemmingway, Stein and
the Fitzgeralds’ crowd. The book title was a beacon in a collection of ‘arghhhh’
moments this month.
The advent of social networking sites has wormed its
time-sapping way into my mind. I like to catch-up with friends/colleagues’ news
but I often find that the time I’d like to be dedicating to creative pursuits
is marred by update reading. This fascination with other people’s lives often
leaves me feeling, ‘Blimey, they’re achieving so much, travelling to so many
places, experiencing a life that I’m not conscious of.’ This acknowledgement is
sometimes shocking because it makes me question my own life in comparison.
The ‘Art man’ and I live a good life, a quiet but good life.
We enjoy theatre trips, eating out in exquisite restaurants, reading, talking,
creating, seeing good friends sporadically and we’re both very close to our
families. In a time when we’re trying to streamline/minimalise our creative
endeavours, our social/familial life is there already.
So perhaps the Murphy’s title is fitting and something we’ll
endeavour to continue to do in the face of such ambitious activity online…..